Reflection
According
to my CMI results, which shows the dimensions decision making, destiny,
communication and status, I've came up with the following conclusion.
Part 1:
1-
Firstly, decision making
is how you decide to do something and how decisions are made. This dimension
divide people into who decide based on their relationship and who decide based
on the rules.
2-
The other dimension is destiny.
Destiny means who control your life? Do you have the power to take control of
your life or you let people do that and decide for you? It’s easy to know
people who are directive, control their life, and people who are directed,
people control their life.
3-
Communication is
also a dimension a chose, which means do you say what you want openly and you
mean it or you feel it’s better to say things indirect. There are people who
prefer to be direct and open with people about what they say, and others who
prefer and think it’s appropriate to be more indirect.
4-
Status is one
dimension I like and chose. It’s about people who have and get what they want
without working on it, and people who work hard and try their best to reach
their goals. People who tend to be ascribed don’t work for the things they
have, it’s either they were born with it or they got it because of their name
and relationships. Who work hard by themselves are achieved. They count on
their selves to do something.
Part 2:
Secondly, based on my results, I'm more
relationship oriented. My relationships guide me in decision making. I
think it’s not true, I of course listen to the rules and then decide, but that
doesn't mean that I count on rules or relationships 100%, I think it’s in
between. For the destiny, I'm more directive than directed. I decide how
I'm going to live my life and what will I do next. I agree with this result. I
hate when people tell me or force me to do anything, and if I did I will not
try my best. I think everyone should direct their lives because it’s their life
and they will live it not others. I also tend to be more direct in
communication. I say what’s in my mind and I mean it. The result said that and
I agree. I like being direct with people so they could understand me well and
not try to explain unnecessary things. I'm an achieved person. The result of
status mentioned that I'm more achieve oriented, and I'm with the result
I got. I prefer to be known for things I did myself not things I were born
with. If I achieved what I want by myself, I will later be proud of what I have
done.
Part 3:
Finally, in 5 years later, I don’t
think all the results will change. It will stay the same for destiny and
status. I will never let people to control my life and decide for me. In
addition to that, I will always try to depend on myself to achieve things. For
decision making and communication, it might change. I don’t want to decide
based on my relationships, I need to be aware of the rules. Moreover, I don’t
want people to not accept me because of the way I talk and deal with them! In
the future, I want to be a better person than I am now, so I hope that I
develop myself and skills to be more active and useful.
